Family vacations were not a part of my childhood and in fact, vacations were not much a part of my early life. I feel a sadness about this and accordingly, they are now an annual fixture in planning. And let me be clear, I am making up for lost vacations now….and have no plans to stop.
Last spring when I made my pilgrimage to France, it included a short week in Italy with my brother, his Italian wife Cinzia, and their daughter, now nine, Giulia. When I emailed Paul that I would be returning to France in spring, but sadly as this was now solely business I would not have the time to pop over to Italy, he took matters squarely in hand and volunteered his family to come to France. We quickly settled on Lanquedoc and he proceeded to find for us what turned out to be a simply fabulous gîte. If you are heading in that direction check out Domaine de Curé just outside of Carcassone.
Our hosts were Jean-Noël (American/Japanese born in Geneva) and his wife Agathe, who is French. They found each other in Japan and after very successful careers decided to exchange the fashion and fame of Tokyo for a bucolic setting in the French countryside. There are three units and with everyone respecting others’ privacy it was a delightful week with a blend of many social encounters. We of course were the most rambunctious party (rowdy Americans, vocal Italians and a hot wired nine year old) as our neighbors were German (one couple in their late 20’s, early 30’s, and the other in their 50’s) with no kids. One couple was returning for their second year and another for their 3rd year.
Our week included a trip on the Canal Midi, the cité of Minerve, the castle at Lastours, lots of swimming, eating, and just being. Giulia ran a series of snail races and repeatedly beat me at hangman. When we were not engaged in sporting events or intellectual sparing, we watched Disney movies in multiple languages, and giggled a lot. (Truly, the chipmunks in Italian are a riot!).
I arrived at 6:10, they arrived at 6:18, picture taken at 6:30!
I noticed after publishing photos that I do not have any of Cinzia. Giulia had a new super camera and was the official family photographer and only on occasion did I remember to grab my camera. I will try to rectify this. It would take only a flash to see that Giulia’s quiet beauty comes from her mother. Her strong will and determination???